You want nothing more than to see your wife writhe in agony and call your name in joy, right? The problem is that you do not know exactly how consistent they are on this point. Well, let me give you several tips to make her want you inside her and once you reach this point, you are all set to go.

1. Touch her hand and wrist. It certainly seems less sexual to most men to touch a woman’s hands in foreplay, but they are actually her body’s most sensitive parts. Just stroking her palm or the inside of her wrist will send shivers along her spine. Try rubbing the hands of her inner wrist all the way up her forearm. Not only will she melt, but you will put her senses on high alert, making her ready for more.

2. Whisper into her ear. Her ears are not only perfect for listening to you talk about your day at work, they are actually a very sensual part of her body. Plus, they will directly connect you with the most sexual organ in her body: her brain. Lean close to her and whisper in her ear. The gentle rush of warm air in her ear sends tingles down their spine. And if you are saying some naughty words about what you want to do to other parts of her body, you will probably get quite some excitement from her.

3. Give her neck some attention. While you whispering in her ear, your hands can work their magic on her neck. For some reason, the base of the neck, where it connects to the shoulders and upper back is full of nerve endings. They will send shots of joy rushing throughout her entire body with the attention provided by your fingers, so do not disappoint her. Gently stroke her lower neck with your fingers and, if you are not whispering in her ear, you can compensate for it with soft kisses and maybe even a little lick.

4. Stroke her hair. You can love how her hair smells after a shampoo or the way it feels draped over your chest after a round of passionate sex, but you fail to show her the attention she wishes that you would. A woman’s scalp is super-sensitive and each strand of her hair is connected to it. Imagine what that means when you start stimulating these thousands of strands and all at once! Remember that women are not only playing with their hair to look cute and flirtatious, they do it because it feels amazing for them. Simply start running your hands through her hair, and she will begin to melt. Some women even go crazy if their partner brush her hair for her.

5. Massage her back. No woman can ever resist a sensual massage and there is a good reason for this. A woman’s back is filled with nerve endings and just waiting for the right stimulation. Of course, every woman is different in terms of where the hot spots are. Some prefer the area just below the shoulder blades, others get weak with a few strokes on her lower back. Part of the fun is to discover all the best places for your fingers, hands, tongue and lips to enjoy her body. If you really want to experiment, take a feather and light stroke her back with it. The moaning that you hear now is only a prelude to what you will be getting when you are in bed together.

6. Touch her lips. You would probably be surprised to discover how many tiny nerves can be found in those soft, sweet lips that have kissed that you and you probably have hours of fun with it in other ways. Now you can pay back the favour by providing much-needed attention. Kiss her. Start with very soft kisses, then gradually more intense and passionate. If you want to start more slowly, run the tip of your finger over her lips to give her goose bumps all over her body.

7. Ignore her breasts for a while. Men love breasts and women love men to love their breasts. But they love you loving rest of them first. If you really want to bring your woman to a rush of frenzy, work on stimulating all of her body without removing any of her clothes. When she is already very excited and you can definitely tell, start stroking, kissing, licking her breasts and nipples. Your devotion to the rest of her beautiful body is nothing to lose.

Making love is one of the most pleasurable experiences human beings can enjoy. The act of making of love is as diverse as there are people. There are many ways to enhance the pleasure of love making and love bites is one among the most popular ones. Women love to give love bites, scratches when in throes of passion – and they love to get them too. Giving love bites should be as enjoyable for her as it is for you. You can give love bites anywhere on the body.

On the lips
Hold on to her lip, suck gently and roll her lips between your teeth enough to give pain but not hurt, then again suck gently

On her neck
This is one spot that most women find irresistible. You choose the base of the neck and start first with wet kisses, then slightly suck on the skin. If you find that she enjoys it, then gently roll her flesh between the teeth with a little pressure. You will know whether she loves it or not by her reactions.

On her breasts
Circle slowly her breasts with your tongue and then slowly, temptingly bite just enough to leave teeth marks (you need to practice on yourself to understand how much pressure you should apply, or read her response carefully). Alternate with wet kisses and close down on the nipples.

On her nipples
Biting nipples should be done very carefully because they are packed with nerves and need careful handling. Biting the nipples is excellent just before or while she is climaxing. Be careful of what cues she is sending you as that would tell you whether she likes or not. Some women love her man to suck and bite hard – follow her lead on this.

On her inner thighs
This is another place packed with nerves hence it is extremely pleasurable. Love bites on the inner thighs coupled with finger stimulation of the clitoris can drive her into multiple orgasms.

On the vagina
Love bites down here can give excruciating ecstasy but this is an acquired taste and hence, you need to test the waters before you go on with this. Start with teasing and rolling the vulva lips between your lips and see her reaction. If she moans and opens her legs wide, she loves it. Approach the clitoris carefully, this is the equivalent of male (penis) head and is extremely sensitive. Here bite would not be the right word/ action – rather rolling the clitoris between the teeth (softly) alternating it with long licks and sucking it can give her some orgasms.

On the buttocks
The bottom is often the most neglected part of the anatomy of the woman. Bites on her bottom would (similar to spanking) bring up the blood to the genital region creating a warm feeling and enhancing the orgasmic pleasure.

There is an old Chinese saying: “Man is fire, woman is water. The man fire brings the woman water to boiling.” These days most women want orgasms. That wasn’t always the case. Not much more than a generation ago, many adult females simply did not have climaxes – and a lot of them were not bothered about it. The big difference between male and female orgasm is that after the first climax, many women can “come” again, often within a minute or two. As always, the most important key to creating a better sex life is honest communication between you and your lover. After that you have got to realize that it is not a mechanical thing (unlike in men).

The top factors that have to be there for a real female orgasm to occur:

• Comfortable surroundings
• A partner she really likes
• Kissing and cuddling for at least 10-20 minutes
• A partner who know how to rub the clitoris right

Please bear in mind that – contrary to what many men think – sexual intercourse by itself is not likely to produce an orgasm. This is because intercourse alone is not very good at stimulating the her clitoris. Nearly all females need additional stimulation of the clitoris by fingers or mouth. Another important thing to remember when looking into female orgasm techniques is communication about sex. Ask her what she likes and if she isn’t too shy ask her to show you.

Women know exactly what they want and nobody can give you better orgasm tips than the person themselves. Don’t be afraid to ask her what she wants and use your mouth and your tongue wherever possible too.