Many people are looking for a lasting relationship and yet some fail to understand how to strengthen a relationship and gain the love and respect for each other. Here are ten secrets towards an everlasting relationship for you and your partner to reflect on.

The First Secret: The power of Love.

Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about ourselves and others. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help recognize him or her when you meet.

The Second Secret: The power of Respect.

You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect ask yourself, “What do I respect about myself? ” To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself, “What do I respect about them?”

The Third Secret: The power of Giving.

If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself, freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of you can take.

The Fourth Secret: The power of Friendship.

To find true love you must first find a true friend. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love’s seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.

The Fifth Secret: The power of Touch.

Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

The Sixth Secret: The power of Letting go.

If you love something, let it be free. Even in a loving relationship, people need their space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions.

The Seventh Secret: The power of Communication.

To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know; that you love and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say, “I love you.” Never let an opportunity pass to praise and acknowledge someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word. It could be the last time you see them.

The Eighth Secret: The power of Commitment.

If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong, loving one.

The Ninth Secret: The power of Passion.

Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone. It comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. The essence of love and happiness are the same, all we need to do is to live each day with passion.

The Tenth Secret: The power of Trust.

You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Trust yourself, trust others and trust the world. It is the foundation for LOVE.

Making love is one of the most pleasurable experiences human beings can enjoy. The act of making of love is as diverse as there are people. There are many ways to enhance the pleasure of love making and love bites is one among the most popular ones. Women love to give love bites, scratches when in throes of passion – and they love to get them too. Giving love bites should be as enjoyable for her as it is for you. You can give love bites anywhere on the body.

On the lips
Hold on to her lip, suck gently and roll her lips between your teeth enough to give pain but not hurt, then again suck gently

On her neck
This is one spot that most women find irresistible. You choose the base of the neck and start first with wet kisses, then slightly suck on the skin. If you find that she enjoys it, then gently roll her flesh between the teeth with a little pressure. You will know whether she loves it or not by her reactions.

On her breasts
Circle slowly her breasts with your tongue and then slowly, temptingly bite just enough to leave teeth marks (you need to practice on yourself to understand how much pressure you should apply, or read her response carefully). Alternate with wet kisses and close down on the nipples.

On her nipples
Biting nipples should be done very carefully because they are packed with nerves and need careful handling. Biting the nipples is excellent just before or while she is climaxing. Be careful of what cues she is sending you as that would tell you whether she likes or not. Some women love her man to suck and bite hard – follow her lead on this.

On her inner thighs
This is another place packed with nerves hence it is extremely pleasurable. Love bites on the inner thighs coupled with finger stimulation of the clitoris can drive her into multiple orgasms.

On the vagina
Love bites down here can give excruciating ecstasy but this is an acquired taste and hence, you need to test the waters before you go on with this. Start with teasing and rolling the vulva lips between your lips and see her reaction. If she moans and opens her legs wide, she loves it. Approach the clitoris carefully, this is the equivalent of male (penis) head and is extremely sensitive. Here bite would not be the right word/ action – rather rolling the clitoris between the teeth (softly) alternating it with long licks and sucking it can give her some orgasms.

On the buttocks
The bottom is often the most neglected part of the anatomy of the woman. Bites on her bottom would (similar to spanking) bring up the blood to the genital region creating a warm feeling and enhancing the orgasmic pleasure.

Ever wonder how do you kiss a woman in the right way? Some men may have experienced from their various dating that in the second or third date, they would kiss the girl but will be unsure if they are really doing a good job in doing it. This is of course a great question in which there is a little secret that will be shared in this post.

That secret is ANTICIPATION.

Anticipation is such an important concept when it comes to “getting physical” with a woman. It is in fact important to incorporate it into every part of your interactions with a woman. Now, if you really don’t know how to kiss a woman, there is this recommendation:

START SLOW, THEN MIRROR WHAT SHE DOES.

Here’s how to mix this strategy with ANTICIPATION.

Let’s say that you decide it’s time to kiss her. You use the “Kiss Test”, and she’s enjoying it… so you lean over to kiss her. Just as you start to kiss her, when you first feel your lips touching hers, stop right there. Brush your lips back and forth on hers a little bit, then pull away without actually kissing her. Then smile at her.

You’ll probably be sitting there thinking “Why the hell didn’t I just kiss her?”

She’ll probably be sitting there tingling all over, and feeling like she wants to jump on you.

Next, lean back. Talk a little more. A few minutes later, touch her hair again. Then lean over to kiss her again. This time, go very slowly. Gently press your lips against hers. Hold them there for a moment, and feel how she responds. If she kisses you the same way, then just stop, lean back, and relax again for a few minutes. The next time you kiss her, open your mouth just a little bit, and see if she does the same. Do this a couple of times.

At some point, she will probably start “escalating” the kisses, because the anticipation is just too much for her. At this point, stop her. Push her away, and smile.

Once the couple is ready to go out on a date together, the hunt for the best venue for the perfect dinner date will begin. Lovers of all ages search for the ultimate place where soothing mood of the night heightens of the season of love. Help is a must for loving souls who aim to make this annual season unforgettable for the loving souls. Take this following romantic recipe as Chef Cupid prepares the perfect ingredients for your perfect Valentine Dinner date.

1. Work within your budget. There is a price for everything. But never go beyond what you can afford or you’ll end up stressed financially. Price may count, but value is treasured. Go for what is creative and imaginative.
2. Mix perfect mood and ambiance. Total silence is stale. Too much noise is havoc. A lovely dinner’s feel is ideal by the elaborate mixture songs and sound at a time it is required. Everything results in pleasure when taken on the right pace.
3. Sprinkle some scent of surprise. The element of not knowing what’s in store for the receiver simply takes anyone’s breath away. Gifts may be forgotten but surprises are treasured. Make the preparation more subtle and expect that impact it creates ends with a bang!
4. Serve everything with love. Make the night of the dinner pleasurable to your special someone. Make them feel that you are at their disposal. Give them the utmost attention they deserve. Let them feel that they own this night.

Expect that after this night, you and your partner will remember this night forever.